Comments on: Do you really need their approval?

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Deer Doe: I hate my uniform | Doe Deere Blogazine — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 15:06:59 +0000

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By: Anomynous

Anomynous — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 07:04:19 +0000

I wore a cosplay (japanese school uniform) to class.

Except that my aunties and uncle have opposed it with the reason that it’s not Halloween, and that I attract unwanted attention, that I look stupid, etc.

But I don’t care about it.

By: maricela

maricela — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 17:23:30 +0000

If you significant other makes you feel bad about yourself for being who you are and what you like, you need to leave before it becomes even more toxic and find someone who will support you and love you for who you are, not want to change you to be “normal”!!!!!!!
I dress “unconventionally”. I enjoy vintage clothing, mostly 40s-50s pin-up and victorian (ie corsets and bustle dresses) styles, I also wear a lot of “lolita” style. I think it looks nice on me. I have always liked really frilly dresses and bows. My favorite dress ever was a yellow lace hoop skirt number I had when i was five. I would love to recreate that dress. I get weird looks sometimes and comments that aren’t too flattering but who cares if the way i look makes me happy screw everyone else.
My mother (I’m 21 by the way) likes to make comments about my hair (right now it’s purple and teal) and makeup (you look like a clown/hooker/drag queen/etc.) and how i “dress up” too much. She likes to say that I’m a bad influence for my two daughters because of the way I look, my tattoos and piercings, and wardrobe. I like to tell her that i am teaching them that they don’t have to conform to society’s definition of beauty and can look the way that makes them happy and feel good.

By: Jessica

Jessica — Sat, 21 Feb 2009 11:58:20 +0000

I could really relate to both of those letters that were sent to you!
my mum says that to me!
i got a bright pink lipstick i wear with coloured eyeshadow, and she said it ruined me etc etc etc.
She thought mac was bad and for drag queens, but now she borrows mine =]
I’ve tried every single style out there i think, and after 5 years of experimenting i wear what i want to, sometimes i wanna go vintage and quirky, sometimes im indie, sometimes i have a victorian look with a few bows =]

My ex boyfriend wanted me to wear baggy trousers and hoodies and beanies, not to wear much makeup and not to have hair ive made an effort on etc. Basically natural and in my opinion boring!
I said its me, you like it or you don’t, you can have all of me (including my bright makeup and vintage clothing) or none of me.
I’m not together with him because he wanted me to have an attitude aswell, to like the music he likes etc.

Thats not a relationship, thats a dictatorship!!!!

I totally agree with what doe said about the advice, exept for your mum of course, if they dont like it, its who you are!